Saturday, March 29, 2014

Sick Days...

Mid February we got hit hard with some nasty bug that wiped out 3 of the kids. Max and Rhett got hit the hardest. Kate just had a cough which she then gave to Carson.

Saturday the 15th Max started coughing uncontrollably, developed a very high fever and lethargy set in. Poor baby couldn't rest he kept coughing himself awake. We figured it was some viral junk that everyone else was getting and that the doctor would just have us rest and keep fluids in him. So we waited. After several days of no improvement we had our neighbor Dusty come over and help Phil give Max a blessing so he could sleep and get better. That night his fever broke and he had a peaceful night's rest. We are grateful for the priesthood and helpful friends.

A few days later Rhett got taken down too. This poor kid. He didn't even resemble his normal vivacious self. His fever would come and go, raging hot and then would break. Only to return. When we gave him Tylenol he would perk up a bit, play but not eat and hardly would drink. Rhett never complained.

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The boys also got hit with pink eye. Lovely, right? Luckily we were able to just call the doctor and they called in drops for the boys without us going into the office. At this point we were still thinking the coughs were viral and would run it's course.

Since we were all under house arrest I had to get creative. We were all going stir crazy. I built a fun fort in the front room and that kept them busy for a few hours.

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The beautiful light and whimsy of childhood also prompted me to dust off my big camera and snap a few pictures of my sick babes. Soooo much better than my phone camera above.

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We finally called the doctor to take the boys in after almost a week of little improvement. I called Phil at work and asked him to come home so I could just take the sickies to the doctor and spare Carson from possible exposure. Just as I was loading the kids in the van, I picked up Rhett to put him in his carseat and he vomited all over me and the garage floor. Phil walked in at that moment and ended up taking just Max since we were already running late and Rhett and I were a gross, stinky mess.

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Max came home with antibiotics and a steroid breathing treatment and they also wanted to do a blood draw. Phil was leery of the draw since he knew Max would be traumatized, he also felt it was overkill. We decided to just do the meds and skip the blood draw. Max improved and is healthy now, thank goodness!

This was a Friday and since Rhett didn't get into see the doctor they couldn't call in meds for him. He wasn't coughing like Max was but still wouldn't eat, drink and slept all the time. He was sad and whiny, still with a fever. We took him into Urgent Care the next day and they diagnosed him with an ear infection. They gave him numbing drops and a script for antibiotics. He came home a different kid once the pain was managed. We asked him if his ear had been hurting (remember he never said a darn thing!) and he emphatically said "Yeah! My ear hurts!", like "good grief mom and dad, what took you guys so long?!". 

I felt awful! During Rhett's first year he had around nine ear infections. He had tubes inserted at 15 months and we haven't had an episode since. With his diagnosis all the pieces fit back together again; loss of appetite, lethargy, fever, sleeping all the time... These were Rhett's classic symptoms of an ear infection. Back before he got tubes I could read him like a book and my mommy sense was keen on picking up on them. Also the reason he vomited was due to the motion of me picking him up, his eardrum full of fluid negated his equilibrium and that is why he got nauseous. It all made sense now!

He started a 10 day regimen of Augmentin. Then 2 days after he finished the meds he complained that his ear hurt. Thank goodness; we made sure to emphasize that he needs to tell us when his ears hurt! Took him back into the doctor and the same infection had not resolved. He has been desensitized to certain antibiotics due to how many he had his first year. We got him on a different drug, Omnicef, and that kicked it. Last week we followed up with the doctor to make sure the infection was gone. It is but he still has a lot of fluid in his ear and that ear lost it's tube, hence the ear infection. We see the ENT in a few weeks to evaluate if he needs to have another tube placed. 

Whew! That was a book of a blog. I just meant to throw up some cute pics of my kids and say we were sick... And now this. :) Once I start writing the words just keep flowing. Thankfully through all of the sickness Kate was always healthy and Carson's cough was just that. A cough with lots of stuffy congestion. That wreaked havoc on our sleeping but was managed with saline and an awesome nose sucker thing I got online. I am thankful he didn't get the kids' pink eye and infection.

Valentine's 2014

We aren't terribly big on holidays but I like to make it fun for the kids. When I spend too much time on the internet and get sucked into Pinterest then I feel like a slacker mom. I remind myself that my kids are young and they don't require much to make something special. That being said I have given myself a break this year, simple should be my motto with so many kids around here and so many big changes occurring in our life. There's always next year...

I wanted to do a fun themed breakfast but we were supposed to attend the Gilbert Temple Open House on Valentine's day in the morning. Phil ended up working until late afternoon and I opted for simple and made a cute little heart lunch instead. Note to self: Simple wins every time!

Peanut butter with raspberry jelly and a sprinkle heart. The kids were thrilled. Note to self: Sprinkles win every time! :)

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Then we cut out hearts and wrote Valentine's to our friends and neighbors. I made sugar cookie bars, ate too many and then we gave the rest away.

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When Phil got home from work we headed over to the temple. Kate was so excited to visit it! It was the last weekend of the open house and it.was.slammed! SO busy. Phil started muttering about the crowds as soon as we turned into the parking lot and I reminded him that this could very well be a once in a lifetime event and that we could do it. It happened to be at least 85 degrees that day, three o'clock in the afternoon and I didn't bring an umbrella to protect Carson from the sun. We trekked across the crowded parking lot with our little crew and found that just to get into the Stake Center building was at least an hour outside. From there we were to watch a nice video and then get into another long line to enter the temple. Again, at least an hour wait outside in the sun. No bueno.

We called it; accepted our current lot in life with 4 kids ages 4 and under and admitted defeat. I was bummed, Kate was sad and cried. We went over to the grounds and just looked at the nice water feature for a few minutes and pretty much left. Sad day! Phil assured me we were fine. We can obviously go together as a couple and the kids will just have to go through the temple when they get older, just like we did. He was right. Plus, good grief! Wearing a baby on your chest in the blazing sun is no fun. We would have never made it!

For preschool Kate was festive and I did her hair in the shape of a heart. She loved it!

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At the kids' preschool party they exchanged cute Valentine's, which I now realize I never took a picture of them!, and we made a cute craft together. They love when a parent comes to their class and it was fun making this craft with them. 

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I posted the above picture on instagram with the following caption:
"It's after the crazies have gone to bed and the house is quiet that I can reflect on our day. I check on each of my sleeping children and their sweetness and innocence is so endearing. My heart swells with love and I vow to do better tomorrow. To love more, be softer, kinder. To slow down and just be. It's easy  to get caught up in the mad dash of mothering, to only get by with the physical needs-I'm certainly in the thick of that!- but it's the little things like preschool crafts that my darlings made, and are so proud of, or the way Kate is sleeping with her bear tightly clutched in her arms, and how she wanted to sleep in her heart hairdo... These small and seemingly insignificant things stop me and make me remember what truly matters. THEY do! And they are precious little people with feelings and they deserve to feel loved every day."

Consider that my Valentine to my kids.

For the Valentine's that they passed out to their preschool friends we chose the non-candy route. Kate passed out applesauce pouches and Max little animal figures. Each with a crafty saying thanks to Pinterest.

We also went to the Valentine event at the Mesa children's museum. Remember last year's fiasco meeting of Curious George? When all three children were screaming and crying in fear? This year only Max was brave enough to approach the giant Daniel Tiger. Kate started crying as soon as she walked in the door and spotted him. Rhett shyly said hi from a safe 6 foot distance. Progress! At this rate we will be ready for Disneyland in 10 years.

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Wednesday, March 12, 2014

Carson: 1 Month

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Little Man Carson turned 1 month old in February. It is crazy to see how much they change in just a few weeks time. Crazy sad!

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At his 1 month well visit his stats were:
Weight: 9 pounds 7ounces
Length: 22 inches
Newborn diapers and clothes still.

He was 6 pounds 8 ounces when he came home from the hospital so he gained a whopping 3 pounds in one month! Overachiever. I love it! I am proud of both of us for making such progress in a months time. Wahoo for nursing!

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He eats every 2-3 hours around the clock, is making eye contact now and is just the sweetest babe. Carson only cries when he is hungry, tired or needs some love, he has a very relaxed disposition. And since he is the baby of a busy young family, it is a darn good thing he is so chill.

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A few favorite pictures of Carson from the month of January:

2 weeks old and freshly bathed. Mmmmm, nothing like a fresh baby.

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Squishy kissy lips. Another favorite. Let's be honest, I just love babies, especially my babies.

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Carson's crazy baby mullet. Soft as rabbit's fur.

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One of the best things about a new baby, the chest snuggles.

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As you can tell, we are enamored with this sweet babe of ours. Time is flying by so quickly and he has changed so much from these pictures.

Friday, March 7, 2014

Phil's 36th

Phil had a birthday back in January. Wahoo! He's old enough now that he doesn't remember how old he is and he has to ask me. Funny guy.
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We make birthdays fun for the kids but take a more low key approach for ourselves, though I wouldn't mind making it more of a party, just sayin'... Since we were just 2 weeks out from having Carson we definitely embraced low key. I gave the gift of time and love in baking a fabulous Black Forest cake. So delicious and rich! A moist chocolate cake with freshly whipped cream, from scratch cherry sauce and chocolate shavings. It was really wonderful and we ate off that thing for a whole week! Phil doesn't like sweet frostings or much of it so the whipped cream was right up his alley. Me? Bring on the frosting!
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We are sure grateful that we have such a wonderful daddy and husband. He is selfless, serving, helpful, kind and fun. Those are just a few of his attributes! We are really blessed to have him as ours. Love you Phil.


Thursday, March 6, 2014

Carson's Newborn Session

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Carson is 6 days old in these pictures. I miss this itty bitty babe already.

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Newborn pictures are something I will always cherish, especially an image of me with my baby. So much energy and emotion goes into growing, nurturing and loving a sweet baby. It is lovely to capture just an essence of it. These images are a treasure.

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One of my favorite detail captures: squishy kissy lips and his fuzzy little shoulder. 

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